Last week, I skimmed my bookshelves and found several books written by Robert Kiyosaki. I had a quick look at his best seller, “Rich Dad Poor Dad”. Robert wrote this book and created a world syndrome to be rich. The message is simple; “You do not need to be controlled by money but you control the money.” I was very intrigued by his money management philosophy and I did dig deeper to find out more about Robert Kiyosaki himself.
I found that he had not one, but three life threatening accidents during last 10 years, since he wrote his book and because of this, he had learned a big lesson.
He said, “I survived because there is something important that I need to do. I found out that what motivates me is not the money but life’s purpose that was given by god. We all do have things to do and purpose of life. We have unique talent and we have obligation to develop that talent and give back to world that we live in. That is our life’s purpose and obligation to fulfill.”
I agree with what he said and the core of achieving happy success is to find our own purpose of life and working towards becoming the best in that category. We need to see ourselves progress towards it each day and how it contributes to our world in positive way.
Therefore, the most important tasks parents must complete is to find our children’s purpose and talent, to then nurture them and maximize them to achieve their full potential.
As parents, we do need three special skills that we need to develop to help them along in this process.As humans, we only utilize 5 to 10% of our potential within our lifetime. The most well known scientist, Albert Einstein, could only use less than 10% of his brain. Sooner we help them to find their hidden potential, and talents, more chance to use higher percentage of their potential and closer towards happy success for our children.
1) Finding our children’s potential and talent
Children can be too young or inexperienced to know what their potentials and talents are. It is a parents’ responsibility to help them to find what they are. The easiest way to find their talent would be to provide lots of opportunity for them. Allow them to a lot of different things. Help them to find what they do like and dislike, and focus on what they like and help them in doing that specific thing more often.
2) Developing our children’s potential and talent
Once they are found, parents need to coach their children to develop it further towards their full potential. One of the great ways to achieve this is to find people who are already doing what your children wants to do, and to find out more about how they for there. Also find out what they have done in the past. For example, if a child wants to be a pianist, we may take them to a private art gallery in town and have an opportunity to see and meet real artists. It does not have to be a famous person, but anyone who is in the industry. That will provide a great opportunity for inspiring our children and maybe the person can even become the mentor of the child along the way.
3) Timing of developing our children’s potential and talent
It is like playing with gypsum plaster. Plaster gets hardened and difficult to change in shape as time goes by, so you need to make whatever desired shape before it gets hard. Same goes with developing talent. It is a lot easier to develop talents when children are young. Neuroscientists confirms that early experiences impact brain development, even more so than genetics.
Are you doing anything to find and develop your child’s talent and potential? If so, please share with us your experiences. We would love to hear your ideas and thoughts.